In a candid and emotionally charged podcast interview that has since gone viral, Adewunmi Fatai, the former partner of Nollywood actor Mustapha Sholagbade, has opened up about the painful and highly public collapse of their relationship, revealing that she first learned of their breakup through the internet.
According to Adewunmi, she was blindsided when Mustapha gave an interview publicly declaring that he could not marry her—despite the fact that they were still together at the time. The revelation sparked widespread conversation across social media, with the phrase “I chop my own breakfast on the internet”—a colloquial reference to heartbreak—quickly becoming a trending topic.
“I found out about the breakup online,” she said. “We were still together when he gave an interview saying he isn't marrying me anymore because I insulted his mother. He said I wasn't ready for marriage and only wanted to have a child. How could I insult a woman who didn’t even congratulate me when I gave birth?”
A Story of Silence, Shock, and Separation
Adewunmi Fatai, a popular makeup artist and influencer, recounted how she was left confused and emotionally distressed after discovering Mustapha’s public statement regarding their relationship. According to her, no prior conversation or warning was given before he made the interview public.
She also refuted Mustapha's claims that her alleged disrespect toward his mother was a factor in their breakup. Instead, Adewunmi described a strained dynamic with her ex-partner’s family, claiming she received no support or acknowledgment during a critical period in her life—the birth of their son via Caesarean section.
“His mother never congratulated me when I had our son. She insisted I kneel to greet her, even though I had just gone through surgery,” she said during the podcast.
Adewunmi further alleged that Mustapha displayed a pattern of disrespect not just toward her, but also toward her own mother, saying that such behavior contributed to the eventual breakdown of their relationship.
A Personal Story in the Public Eye
Mustapha Sholagbade, known for his roles in Yoruba-language films and his rising profile in Nollywood, has yet to issue a public response to Adewunmi’s statements. His original comments about the relationship—suggesting that he could not proceed with marriage due to alleged personal incompatibilities—remain a point of public contention.
The situation has reignited conversations about celebrity relationships, emotional accountability, and the impact of public breakups in the age of social media. Adewunmi’s experience resonates with many women who have experienced similar treatment in private relationships that later became public scandals.
Public Reaction and Support
Since the interview aired, Adewunmi has received a wave of public support online, with fans, celebrities, and influencers alike applauding her courage for speaking out. Many commended her for maintaining grace and restraint in the face of public embarrassment and emotional distress.
Mental health advocates have also chimed in, using the situation to highlight the emotional toll of uncommunicated breakups and the need for respectful closure in intimate relationships—especially when children are involved.
Looking Ahead
While Adewunmi did not indicate whether she plans to take any legal or formal action, she stated that her primary focus remains on raising her son and rebuilding her peace.
“I’m not bitter. I just needed to speak my truth. Silence becomes too heavy when you carry it alone,” she concluded.
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