They pressed my breasts for the first time and asked me not to talk. My breasts were flattened - Ajake

According to a report by the Punch on Sunday, March 8, 2026, women who have undergone the harmful practice of breast ironing continue to share painful memories of what they endured as young girls. Though often carried out in the belief that it protects children from early relationships or marriage, survivors say the experience leaves lasting scars both physically and emotionally.

Ajake, a fishmonger based in Badagry, Lagos State, narrated how the practice was forced on her when she was still very young. According to her, the moment came unexpectedly after members of her household noticed that her body had begun to change.

She recalled that the women involved acted quickly and quietly, insisting that the matter must remain secret. Describing the incident, she said, “They pressed my breasts for the first time and asked me not to talk. My breasts were flattened.”

Ajake explained that she was confused and frightened at the time, as no one had prepared her for what was about to happen. The procedure, she said, caused severe pain and left marks on her body that have remained visible many years later.
Despite growing up and building a family of her own, she said the memory of the incident still lingers. The experience also affected her self-confidence as she grew older, particularly during her teenage years when she struggled with the physical changes caused by the practice.
Another survivor, Felicia Ocha from Benue State, also spoke about how cultural beliefs and fear of early pregnancy or harassment often push families to carry out breast ironing on young girls. According to her, the procedure is sometimes repeated several times in an attempt to stop or slow down breast development.
Medical professionals warn that breast ironing can lead to serious health problems, including infections, tissue damage, deformities, and complications during breastfeeding later in life. Experts also stress that the emotional trauma caused by the practice can affect victims for many years.
Human rights groups have described breast ironing as a violation of the rights of young girls, calling for stronger awareness campaigns and community education to eliminate the practice. Advocates argue that protecting children should never involve harmful or painful traditions.